"Say We believe in God and what is revealed to us and what was revealed to Abraham and Ishmael and I`saac and Jacob and the Tribes, and what was entrusted to Moses and Jesus and the prophets from their Lord. We make no distinction between any of them and to Him we have surrendered."
(Quran 3: 84)
There's plenty of talk, or rather, arguing, about this question. Millions of
people have died because they couldn't see eye to eye on the true nature of God,
the universe, and the purpose of life. That's what religion is, in its simplest
form: your opinion of what's out there and what you're supposed to do about it.
Even members of the same religion rarely share the same religion in this
broad definition. Because they have been raised in different families or even
cultures, their perceptions of life vary greatly. It's difficult to comprehend
an understanding, patient God when your own parents were never satisfied with
your performance, quick to punish and slow to congratulate. It's difficult to
feel loved unconditionally by God when your own parents sent unconscious
messages that you were only accepted when you did what pleased them. And so you
may say that you believe in a perfect, loving God, but deep inside, you
really expect to feel His wrath more often than His love.
Even if you belong to the "true" church, if this does in fact
exist, your own personal religion is almost guaranteed to be flawed in many
significant ways. If you don't know the full range of God's love for you and His
willingness to help you, for example, you will never obtain all the joy and
blessings that ought to be yours.
And so the following discussions will serve the atheist, the agnostic, and
the never-doubting disciple to hone their religion, to either discover the truth
or to bring your true feelings--your true religion--closer to what you believe
it should be.
Can all religions be true?
If there is a "true" religion, how do I find it and know when I
do?
How do I make myself understand--in my heart--what I believe?
Can all Religions be True?
To usefully discuss this question, we first must choose a meaning for the
word "true." You have three options:
In its broadest form, true simply means that the religion is a
religion--that it helps you worship God, that it brings you blessings
somehow in return. This is the most basic level of all religions. For this
type of religion, you need no formal organization or dogma. All you really
need is your own heart and desires and hopefully a whisper of the divine
that you can listen to.
Getting more specific, true means that the religion teaches true concepts.
For example: that God exists, is powerful and loving, that He is aware of us
and wishes to help us, and that certain things are required of us in return.
These ideas are also basic to nearly all world religions.
Next, we move into dogma. Dogma sometimes has a negative connotation
because it can imply that we stop at the logical understanding of
the nature of religion, that we don't continue on to letting them influence
our lives, or that we simply take someone else's word for their truth
without an honest investigation ourselves. Nevertheless, religious
"facts" will influence our world- and religious views and even our
faith. They will give us peace and power and sometimes move it farther from
us.
Finally, in the most specific end of the scale, true means that one
organization (or many?) is specifically sanctioned by God and that its
teachings are more accurate than any others'.
If you accept number three, you must also accept one and two--not that they
are the ultimate meaning of truth, but that they have measures of truth and
validity.
If you accept number four, your next step is to consider the following
question:
If there is a "true" religion, how do I find and recognize it?
Many people accept that the religion they were born into is
true. They have developed trust in it often because of having experienced God's
power there in some way. This is not uncommon to good people and others in any
religion, and so is limited as a means to discover "the" true
religion.
Many accept a religion they were converted to (or born into) is
true, often because they were explained the scriptural doctrine and it made
sense. If logical analysis alone were enough to clarify the truth, there would
be far fewer religions today. While many have strong preferences to one point of
view, the strength of various viewpoints demonstrates the folly of relying
wholly on logic and personal interpretation as a means to secure truth.
There is a reason that God left some ambiguity in the
scriptures, and that is to force true seekers of truth to search with their
hearts. True conversion can not take place only in the mind. The heart (and a
humble one at that) is required for us to fulfill the purpose of religion--to
become more like God: more loving, trusting, powerful, wise, forgiving, patient,
merciful, etc.
So there's answer number one: use your mind, study the
scriptures and seek insight there. Be humble and flexible just in case you
picked up an incorrect idea somewhere. Then pray for guidance (if you're serious
and keep asking, guidance WILL come!) and watch for events around you--don't
throw away a miracle or blessing because it's not what you expected to find.
Answer number two: God expects you to do some of the work. Once
you have studied out the question, you can ask Him if you got it right.
Galatians 5:22-23 gives you a clue to recognize when God is communicating with
you. You will often feel this confirmation with these feelings: "But the
fruit of the Spirit is love, hoy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness,
faith, Meekness, temperance...." In other words, you feel His own
attributes.
Be careful, once you have your hands on one piece of truth, not
to stop looking for more. You don't get this all in one shot, you know, and
you're expected to continue growing and learning (a very pleasant experience,
though it often takes patience and trials to get there) throughout your life.
That is the meaning and purpose of life.
How do I make myself understand what I believe?
Excellent question. It's usually a lot easier to have an opinion
than to have faith, hope, and charity. To gain those things, give them a try and
ask God for help. Find ways to serve others. Be patient. Forgive. Enjoy the
beauty in the world around you. Raise your children with love. By doing these
things, you will be participating in God's own work--to help all His children to
grow healthy, strong, and good.
Here's another excellent thing to focus on: is your heart hard
or soft? We often harden our hearts to God because life is tough, we're injured
by others, our faith is damaged because of the pain and suffering we experience
from an imperfect world and the cruelty of others. We sometimes love our sins
and pleasures more than we love God and goodness (but if we only knew the
sweetness that comes from goodness!). Think of the parable of the sower and
remove the stones, break up the hard soil of your heart so that the seed can
spring up there and after it grows, you will easily enjoy the sweet fruit it
brings to your life!